Sambandha Styles
Relationship Styles
As a child, whether you experienced a parenting style full of neglect, control, indulgence, or attunement, these early experiences carved deep samskaras—invisible grooves that form your Sambandha (Relationship) Style, and shape everything from who you choose to how you love, creating the patterns that either serve or sabotage you today.
Soooo...what is Sambandha Style?
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Svastha - स्वस्थ
Self-Knowing.
"I'm Svastha, no need to be an imposta."
Children raised by Saumyas (authoritative parents) become Svasthas—securely attached people whose superpower is their ability to trust and be trusted, creating emotional safety for themselves and others.
Toshaka - तोषक
Self-Sacrificing.
"I'm Toshaka, the bleeding heart chakra."
Children raised by Dandas (authoritarian parents) become Toshakas—deeply loving people with anxious attachment whose superpower is their profound capacity for caring, connection and emotional depth.
Svarthi - स्वार्थी
Self-Reliant.
"I'm Svarthi, I don't need you, but look at ME!"
Children raised by Mitras (permissive parents) become Svarthis—fiercely independent people with avoidant attachment whose superpower is unshakeable self-reliance.
Shunya - शून्य
Self-Doubting.
"I'm Shunya, you'll betray me real soon, ya?"
Children raised by Ālāsa (neglectful parents) become Shunyas—hypervigilant survivors with disorganized attachment whose superpower is detecting danger and reading facial expressions.
